It's Hard To Say Goodbye If You Won't Leave is the 10th episode of Season 3 on NBC series Frasier.


KATE AT THE GATE – Frasier consults Martin, Niles and Daphne about his romantic feelings for Kate when he fears she may not reciprocate and might even reject him. Taking their advice, he declares his love for Kate, only to have her announce that she is leaving the station to take a job in another city.


Kelsey Grammer as Frasier Crane
Jane Leeves as Daphne Moon
David Hyde Pierce as Niles Crane
Peri Gilpin as Roz Doyle
John Mahoney as Martin Crane

Special Guest Star

Mercedes Ruehl as Kate Costas

Guest starring

Marnie Mosiman as Donna
Doug Tompos as Flight Agent


  • Last appearance of Kate Costas
  • Frasier's allergic to cats